My motto for today was from the philosopher Jim Rohn, "In order for things to change you have to change!" I say this over and over in my head, but today it fell from my fingers to an old friend. I know that I am in my own world with personal development when talking to old friends. My new friends I have hand picked in knowing they will not destroy my hard work and devotion to being a good person. While talking to this old friend today, I read his words while IM'ing that he's determined not to change and how it's all his wife's fault. How their relationship keeps going in circles and is not getting better after 13 years of marriage. I asked, if he has heartfelt talked to her and demonstrated his concerns. He said of course, always do, and is so tired of being tired. I mentioned that they have been married so long, that her behavior is a reflection from him and that all is lost if he is lost. Then I gave him my famous quote, "In order for things to change, you have to change." He said, "Yeah, I read that the other day on your Facebook!" I was feeling humor. He then let me know that everything will be fine in a couple weeks. I don't know what that supposed to mean.
I don't believe people understand the term change. It's not that you have to change so much to make so much different. The littlest changes overnight, from your thoughts, to your actions the next day, can very well determine success or failure. Managing the simple decisions and corrections in life is all that is needed. More to come!
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