Who is there to blame?

When people scrutinize other's for their own choices, I just don't get it! The best part of America is the right to choose. We choose and will forever choose the outcomes of our lives. If you don't make enough money, change it! If you don't like where you live, MOVE! If you don't like your job, find another! Why blame a system, when the decision was yours in the first place? Many get into a rut about not being able to change their living habits or stuck with what their lives have to offer now. Sometimes as humans we need to regain control of our lives and work out what we can do. Sometimes that takes an effort of stepping back, refocusing, and making those baby steps back to change. When you point your single finger, 4 are pointing back at you. "Ahhhh, Kari, it's easy for you to say!" REALLY???? How many people in this world have managed to experience a failure? How many people in this world are too afraid to risk the chances of failure? And how many people in this world continue to fail based off the belief that it's not their fault? I've managed to watch and observe several different types of people I've had come in and out of my life. The story is all the same. The story line never changes. It's all about what someone didn't do, what someone didn't say, or how the government is just screwing them over. When do you gain the control of your life? Or will you ever? It's so frustrating to see other's struggle and are not realistic with why they are in that situation to begin with. I'm not perfect, I will never be perfect. The only thing I strive to be is a good person, living a good life. Discipline is the bridge to all. Never hope for more than you are willing to work.